One Scary Thing a Day

One Scary Thing a Day

Recently, I decided to do something scary once a day. Very recently. Two days ago, actually. Today will be the third day but I haven’t done anything scary yet. Two days ago I called the medical school I went to to update my information in the alumni directory. Not...
Mistakes are Made…and that’s Okay

Mistakes are Made…and that’s Okay

I grew up believing I should never make a mistake. That there was something wrong with me when I did make a mistake, as of course I did, all the time! The result of my belief was that I felt terrible every time I made a mistake. Which means, I felt terrible all the...
Get Unstuck with One Word

Get Unstuck with One Word

Want to get stuck or stay stuck? Tell yourself “I don’t know.” No matter what the problem is, telling yourself “I don’t know,” just about guarantees you will not solve the problem. The human brain is very concrete: if I tell myself “I don’t know,” my brain will stop...
Reframe Your Experience

Reframe Your Experience

I recently spoke to a client, James, who had some limiting beliefs around marketing himself to others, as we all do. He’s an entrepreneur, so telling others how he can help (which is what I call marketing) is an important part of his work life. I challenged him to get...